I’m really glad you left a comment, it’s nice to hear a dancer’s perspective on my night. You bring up some good points. That was a great post. And despite the fact that you didn’t pick her up …. I think that you were definitely one of the more stand out guys of the night. Cool story, you had me at the edge of my seat….Man I hope it’s possible to love strippers and be spiritual at the same time…who am I kidding, how can you not love strippers.

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Hi Matt… no offense but we see guys like you coming and going all the time… Any guy who thinks thier going to bag a “dancer” (stripper is an insulting term .. ask any of them) by trying to pick them up at a club is fooling themselves. It may happen occasionally, but it is very rare. There’s tons of hot horny single girls who work the clubs … but you have to be in their “inner circle” to score. You have to be on the inside and working with them is the best way to do it.

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It’s not a big deal and I don’t normally frequent strip clubs but it’d be nice to know that I could pick one up if I could…hopefully without having to resort to a pocket full of blow:) Ian, I think the moral of this story is that it is better to hit on the regular cute girl you would see at a coffee shop when she is at the coffee shop than when she is dancing at a strip club. I give you credit for trying since you were forced in the situation by your friend any how.

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Maybe I’m wrong, but I come from the belief system that even if you believe you are a “GRADE A” 10 alpha man, that sometimes you won’t be about to “seal the deal”. What I mean is, the girl may be attracted to you, she may feel the attraction, but here logical mind, and situation will not allow her to act upon it (especially in a situation like work). I guess what I’m saying is don’t take it personally. It may not of had ANYTHING to do with your game. But, sometimes it’s just not going to happen. It’s not personal, and it’s not an attack on YOU or YOUR game. It’s just an external situation that can be handled.

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So those two clubs you mentioned must be Centerfolds and the Glass Slipper? And if you went to the sketchy one I’ve got to guess you are talking about the GS… HA! Last time I was in there the dancer had us play a game called “p**** basket ball” guys where wadding up dollar bills trying to get one to stick. now that’s what I call a classy bar! Netherlands probably the worst state in the country for strip clubs. On the west coast picking up strippers is a lot easier.

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